Can you fall in love with someone who hurt you before?

A broken heart is never mended. Even if it is, then scars never leaves. They stay with us forever and affect the way we love again.

We always want to love again and sometimes never really remember the scars left behind by our first broken heart.

They say love never really dies. If there was love there before then it will always be there. It never dies. Love is immortal.

We will forgive quickly despite the fact that we never forget. So our heart learn to love again like nothing really happened until we are reminded again of the last time I heart was broken. Especially if it was the same thing that broke our heart previously. We are quickly reminded all we tried to forget. You begin to trust less, Your heart begins to have a mind of it's own, warning you that it cannot take another heart break. let alone from the same person.

Your love will never remain the same, you are quickly reminded. You discover you never really healed and the broken heart becomes fresh. 

Loving them like you used ti before becomes something that is't an option, not anymore. You can't trust them with the most valuable thing to you; your fragile heart. 

It is very difficult loving them again because they have mastered the act of breaking your heart and are most likely to do it over and over again.

It is always better to let old people back into our life because we have already learnt to love them. Letting new people into our live is quite more difficult as falling in love is scary at first.

We just have to learn to let ourselves love again and forget those who have mastered the act of breaking our heart. 

Why Self Love is important.

I was emotionally available when I met you. I was done with dating and was only interested in self discovery. Finding more about myself. Having a date with myself. I was never going to let anyone in. Was afraid of getting hurt again. But then you came along and made all that change. It was your personality. Staying awake was finally better than going to sleep. Finally my reality outweighs my dreams. 

Our love was like a roller coaster. It was like a walk in the park. It was like watching my favorite movie. It was like surfing; adventurous and fun. It was a 247 anxiety feeling, I couldn't catch my breath. Life was moving too fast. I was falling in love, the first time I was falling and wasn't afraid. 

It was beautiful. I felt like the luckiest girl on Earth. It wasn't perfect but it was beautiful. You weren't my dream guy but you were making my dreams come to a reality. I was scared but I loved the feeling anyway. 

You were the highest of highs. But you were also the lowest of lows

You were my high point and also my lowest point. I felt nothing without you and felt everything when you came into my life.

Losing you will be a bad dream. You were the clear skies in my life. The warmth in my winter. Being with you felt like I couldn't move, like I was stuck. Like I was going no where. And that was exactly what I wanted, I wanted to go nowhere but remain right there in your arms forever.  

You destroyed me when you left. I was so void from within. There was nothing left. No soul. You took that with you. I wasn't unhappy that I lost you, I was unhappy that it was also the death of of the real me.

Three years has gone by and I still miss thee real me, I even miss the me when I was with you.

Your presence was a gift. Little did I know, your absence would leave me an even better present: the opportunity to rebuild

You were my muse. I finally got the courage to restart my life from the scratch and this time make it even better. I finally started to learn to love myself. The quick road to self recovery and healing.

I started to look for something to love again; as I loved you. I was looking for a new passion, a new drive. I was looking for where to channel my energy into. I started to surround myself with loved ones, friends and family. As they will play integral role in this journey. They gave me the strength to move on. 

I was no longer looking for your love and acceptance, I had something much better — my acceptance and love for myself.

The emptiness in me was gradually fading away. I began to fill this emptiness with love, happiness, joy and purpose. I was coloring my life. I began to see a great part of myself I didn't even know existed. I was more positive about myself.

Even if there were days I missed you and wished you were with me (and trust me, there were many), I knew I was with the person I really needed to be with: me

I won't deny it, there was days I wish you were still here. But I needed this; I needed to date me a little.

You taught me to love myself, that I am grateful for. I never regret meeting you. I only regret not loving myself a little more. You made me change me for the better. You made me realize that life was more about what we felt of ourselves and not what someone else felt about us. You made me better. You were like a manure in my life. 

For this, I am grateful. 

Why it is so difficult trusting someone when they have cheated on you.

We all had trust issues within us, put there by the people we have dated in the past. People who treated us unfairly.

This is the aftermath of an unfaithful partner. It may destroy us immediately but this hunts us for a lifetime. It leaves behind a scar that remains deep down within us even after they are gone. 

It makes us feel inadequate. It makes us feel like trash; like nothing. It leaves an emptiness in us. We feel we will never be enough for anyone. That we will always be an option in someones life. We will never trust again and will always check for signs of cheating in our next partner. We watch for strange behaviors in our partners even when there is none. The shadows of our cheating ex will always chase us. We begin to see things that isn't real. We begin to wait for when the relationship is over. Saying to ourselves "it is just a matter of time"

You venture into any relationship with distrust and this will ruin the relationship even before it begun.

Their mistake begin to become our greatest undoing. Until it drains the life out of you. 

We need to own our hearts and realize it is ours and not theirs. It need to begin to trust our heart again. Mend the broken heart and begin to live once again. We cannot give out ex the satisfaction of ruining our lives. Not again. Our ex belongs in the past and we should learn to keep them there.  

Live a little and let your heart get hurt. It is the only way we learn. We can't keep looking over our shoulders. We just let ourselves to love again.

We need to learn to trust again — begin on a fresh slate — and learn to live in the "now" and not in the "then"

We all deserve that.

Mariah Carey Slammed By Fans For Thanksgiving Selfie Photoshop Fail — See The Pic

Oh Mariah, Mariah, Mariah! We think pop diva Mariah Carey is perfect just the way she is, but apparently she thought her Thanksgiving photo could use a little help. Unfortunately her attempt at Photoshop turned into a MAJOR fail when fans began bashing her for the obvious edits.

We love Mariah Carey. The 46-year-old diva is incredibly talented, an awesome mom, and has a banging body. Sadly, she didn’t quite feel comfortable in her skin on Thanksgiving, and decided to turn to Photoshop to fix the things about herself that she sees as imperfections. Unfortunately, she’s not very good at Photoshop and her handiwork was REALLY obvious.

In the sexy photo where she’s showing off a homemade pie (and some EXTREME cleavage), Mariah’s left arm is clearly dented just below the shoulder. You can tell where the line of the mirror is warped, a standard telltale of Photoshop work. But that’s not all: she also tried to slim the look of her right thigh. Again, you can tell that she tried to change the pic because the line of the cabinet is bending toward her body where it was otherwise straight. Oh no!

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We’re not the only ones who noticed the dramatic difference. Fans immediately caught on to Mariah’s Photoshop attempt and began slamming her for it in the comments! Some were angry that she would try to mislead fans, while others just wanted to help her out. “Mariah darling I love you dearly! Please delete this photo my love, oh my,” wrote a fan. “Mimi we love you but you need to put an end to the photoshopping thing.. you are beautiful just the way you look stop trying to look perfect all the time,” said another. So sweet! We couldn’t agree more!

CNN aired 30 minutes of hardcore porn

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CNN denies airing 30 minutes of hardcore porn

CNN denied airing 30 minutes of inappropriate content on Thursday night after initially blaming local cable television provider RCN for the mishap, the network clarified on Friday.

"The RCN cable operator in Boston aired inappropriate content for 30 minutes on CNN last night,” the network said in their original statement. “CNN has asked for an explanation."

Two hours later, CNN took the side of the East Coast cable provider and sent The Independent the following statement: "Despite media reports to the contrary, RCN assures us that there was no interruption of CNN’s programming in the Boston area last night."

Viewers were apparently tuning in for a new episode of Anthony Bourdain’s Parts Unknown and the show took on an entirely new meaning when it was replaced with explicit material starring transsexual pornstar Riley Quinn. The pornstar eventually thanked the network for the reportedly free airtime.

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Jeff Carlson, senior VP and general manager of RCN Boston, also toldVariety that the company was researching the incident but saw “no evidence” that their CNN feed was compromised in Boston.

The allegations began with one viewer publicly complaining about the mishap on Twitter and posting multiple NSFW images of the on-air pornography online.

“I can't wait until [RCN] wakes up [tomorrow and] realizes that hardcore porn was broadcast on [CNN] instead of [Parts Unknown] tonight,” user @Solikearose wrote.

“Did anyone else with RCN in Boston see the hardcore porn that was broadcast by CNN by mistake?” the user asked on Twitter. “Vague update from RCN on the #BourdainPorn incident: everything 'working perfectly,' can’t tell how many households affected.”

The user, only identified as Rose, later spoke with BuzzFeed Newsregarding the entire ordeal. “I initially posted because I wanted to see if anyone else in Boston had been affected,” the used explained on Friday. “I think it was a broadcasting error that affected only my house.”

But after the story became widely reported, the user began receiving abusive messages from people accusing her of perpetrating a widely circulated hoax, and she has since made her account private.

However, she still insists that she did not fabricate her story. “I can tell you that it’s real,” she continued. “People [accused] me of faking the story and creepy men sending me dick pics and sexual messages.”

On Friday, RCN responded to the complainant on Twitter, asking the user to share their personal information. "We have not had any reports of the programming issue you mentioned on CNN in Boston,” the company wrote. “If you're still having an issue with that channel, please DM us your address so we can troubleshoot when you're home."

RCN serves nearly 300,000 subscribers in Boston, New York, Philadelphia, and Washington DC. Earlier this year, the service provider was acquired for $1.6 billion by the private investment firm TPG.

Late billionaire Antonino Fernandez willed $2m to 'every' resident of the Spanish village he grew up in

 
Antonino Fernández, who died aged 98 in August 2016, left £169m in his will to the 80 residents of his birthplace - the small village of Cerezales del Condado in north west Spain. He left £2m in his will to each resident and basically made them millionaires overnight.

Fernández born into a family made up of 13 children, emigrated to Mexico in 1949, when he was 32. He went on to become the CEO of Grupo Modelo, the brewery company who make Corona beer - a bottled beer in the United States, with annual sales of $693million (£556million).

Fernández was a well-known philanthropist who never forgot his motherland and was honoured by the former King of Spain, Juan Carlos, for his charitable deeds, including his work with disabled young people.
                                 
                                 

Hollywood Movies Where Actors Actually Had S3X

#1 The Brown Bunny

Chloë Sevigny actually did go down on her co star Vincent Gallo in that movie.

When Friends With Benefits Goes Wrong

#1 Shifting Of S3xtonic Plates

Everything is going along great, s3x with no string, no emotions, no trouble, then all of a sudden there's a shift. You don't know when it happened, but something's changed.

This shouldn't Happen to a 7-year-old girl. Raven-Symoné reveals what was done to her behind the scene of the Cosby Show…

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Body-shaming is never okay, but I imagine that it takes a particularly cruel or ignorant human being to demonstrate this sort of behavior towards a child.

During Tuesday’s taping of “The View,” Raven-Symoné revealed that she encountered her first fat-shamer at age seven on the set of “The Cosby Show,” of all places.

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It was definitely hard,” the 29-year-old shared. “I remember not being able to have the bagel or anything at – we would call it crafty, where it’s just a table of food, ready for you to eat whatever you want. And I remember people would be like, ‘You can’t eat that. You’re getting fat!’ I’m like, ‘I’m 7! I’m hungry!'”

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While she wouldn’t disclose the identity of said shamer, she did explain that those comments remained with her for much of her career.
“I’m not going to put them on blast, but that’s what I was told at that young of an age,” she said. “Even up until I got up to 180 lbs. on ‘That’s So Raven,’ you put nasty stuff in front of me, or you put images of these women that I’ll never aspire to, of course, I’m going to get depressed.”

If Your Man Does These 7 Things, He's Playing You For A FOOL

#1 He tells you he doesn’t want a relationship, but you date him anyway.

You go on a first date with a man who has many qualities you’re seeking. He tells you right away he doesn’t want a relationship and then engages you in interesting conversation. You like him and decide to see where things go. This is a big mistake.

When a man says he doesn’t want a relationship, you need to believe him and move on.

#2 He flirts with you, but doesn’t ask you out.

This man — you know him from work, the gym or church — is such a flirt! He goes out of his way to turn your head. Funny thing is he never asks you out. He’s always happy to see you, but it doesn’t go any further and that’s your clue he’s not seriously interested.

Any man who wants to date you will ask you out. If he doesn’t, there’s something holding him 

#3 He says he’s never been in love.

his is a tough one. Some women are drawn to a man, who appears vulnerable and admits he’s never been in love, like a moth to a flame. He becomes your "love project" because you think he just hasn’t met the right woman yet (a.k.a. you!).

Thoughts like these will leave you feeling foolish when he breaks it off. If he hasn’t been in love and he’s over 40, he doesn’t want to be in love. Don’t’ fall for this — please walk away.

#4 He texts, but doesn’t have time to see you.

So many men love texting. But any man who texts you "Good morning Beautiful" but doesn’t have time to see you is probably texting several other women the same message. Imagine the ego boost of texting with a bunch of single gals.

Don’t waste your time no matter how much fun texting him is or how "into you" he seems. If he was serious, he’d spend time with you in person.

#5 He’s newly divorced, isn’t ready for anything serious, but wants to "see where things go."

This is a tricky red flag because he tells you right off he doesn’t want anything serious. Yet, he dangles the possibility of a relationship based on how things go.

In your mind you know things could will go great because you're a great catch. So, you decide to take the chance. Big mistake!

When a man tells you he isn’t serious, he means it. Finish your glass of wine and say goodbye.

#6 He brings "take out" to your place, but you never go out.

Your date suggests takeout and watching a movie at your place (The old "Netflix and chill" routine). Sounds cozy right? But this is the man code for "booty call." He comes over to your place, but he never takes you out on a proper dinner date.

Why? Chances are he can’t risk being seen in public with another woman because he’s in a relationship or married. Avoid dates at home until you've had several dates in public to see how serious a man is about pursuing you.

#7 You always set up dates because he doesn’t.

When you call and ask him to do something, he agrees to meet you. But he never initiates anything.

Is he lazy? Maybe, but the more likely motivation (or lack of it) is that he’s just passing time with you. He has fun and you’re willing to do all the work, so why not spend time with you until he meets a woman he likes more.

Don’t be a place holder if you don’t want to feel foolish. If he doesn’t ask you out, regardless of the reason, drop him fast.

Once you spot any of these seven red flags, commit to walk away and find a better prospect.

I understand that walking away is not easy. Some men seem too cute, charming, or fun to reject them and resist their advances. But, don't waste time with men who make a fool of you. If you have any inkling or suspicion, move on because there are plenty of good men out there for you to date.

Biggest Dating Fails

#1 Where Was His Hand Last Night

Next time you go on a date, this little chart can help you. Where he places his hand can tell you a lot. What you do after that may hurt him.

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#2 Dating Stages

When you first meet, everything is wonderful. Cut to months down the road, and that's when it's all hanging out. Literally.

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#3 What Happens After the Kiss . . .

Guess it's true?

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THIS WORKS: Get Rid of Stretch Marks NOW

#1 Use Verified Topical Options

There are a number of medically reviewed and effective topical lotions aimed at those who want to reduce and remove stretch marks.

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#2 Less Verified Topical Options

While they are not as endorsed in the medical and beauty communities, some people believe topical forms of lavender, rose, and other similar substances help to remove stretchies.

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#3 Supplements

It is 2015, there is a pill for everything, including Vitamin C supplements which are aimed at rejuvenating skin.

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#4 Laser Treatments

Vascular lasers are proven effective, but at roughly $450 per session they are not for the cash-strapped.

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#5 Surgical Options

This is obviously a more immediate and costly measure, and one that you will have to consult a doctor to undergo.

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#6 What Does NOT Work

Cocoa butter is the main treatment that does not have results backing it, don't be fooled!

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#4 Laser Treatments

Vascular lasers are proven effective, but at roughly $450 per session they are not for the cash-strapped.

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#5 Surgical Options

This is obviously a more immediate and costly measure, and one that you will have to consult a doctor to undergo.

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#6 What Does NOT Work

Cocoa butter is the main treatment that does not have results backing it, don't be fooled!

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