Tuesday, November 29, 2016

Can you fall in love with someone who hurt you before?

A broken heart is never mended. Even if it is, then scars never leaves. They stay with us forever and affect the way we love again.

We always want to love again and sometimes never really remember the scars left behind by our first broken heart.
They say love never really dies. If there was love there before then it will always be there. It never dies. Love is immortal.

We will forgive quickly despite the fact that we never forget. So our heart learn to love again like nothing really happened until we are reminded again of the last time I heart was broken. Especially if it was the same thing that broke our heart previously. We are quickly reminded all we tried to forget. You begin to trust less, Your heart begins to have a mind of it's own, warning you that it cannot take another heart break. let alone from the same person.

Your love will never remain the same, you are quickly reminded. You discover you never really healed and the broken heart becomes fresh. 

Loving them like you used ti before becomes something that is't an option, not anymore. You can't trust them with the most valuable thing to you; your fragile heart. 

It is very difficult loving them again because they have mastered the act of breaking your heart and are most likely to do it over and over again.


It is always better to let old people back into our life because we have already learnt to love them. Letting new people into our live is quite more difficult as falling in love is scary at first.

We just have to learn to let ourselves love again and forget those who have mastered the act of breaking our heart. 

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